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Vidaai — blessings and departure
The emotional farewell as the bride leaves for her new home.
Engagement & marriage
Meaning
Vidaai is the farewell at the end of the wedding, when the couple receive final blessings and the bride departs with her husband. In some traditions she throws rice or grain over her shoulder as a wish for prosperity in her parents’ home.
How it is usually done
- The couple receive final blessings from elders.
- The family performs the customary farewell.
- Relatives offer good wishes and support.
- The couple travel to their next home, where Griha Pravesh may follow.
Good to know
It can be an emotional moment; families may adapt or omit customs that cause distress.
Planning this ceremony?
- Ask your family priest which steps your tradition follows.
- Get the exact materials list and total fee in writing.
- Keep lamps, fire and food safe for children and elders.
Practices vary by region, sampradaya, community and family. General information only. Last reviewed October 2026.