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Pre-wedding ceremonies — Haldi & Mehndi
Turmeric and henna ceremonies before the wedding.
Engagement & marriage
Meaning
Haldi — relatives apply a turmeric preparation to the bride or groom with songs and blessings. Mehndi — henna designs are applied to the bride’s hands and feet, often with music and a family gathering.
How it is usually done
- Haldi: prepare an area with towels, bowls and suitable clothing.
- Begin with a family blessing; relatives apply a little turmeric preparation.
- Sing traditional songs and clean up safely.
- Mehndi: arrange a qualified henna artist and check the product’s ingredients.
- Apply the design, allow it to dry and follow aftercare advice.
Good to know
Turmeric can irritate skin — avoid irritated skin. Avoid “black henna”, which may contain harmful chemicals such as PPD.
Planning this ceremony?
- Ask your family priest which steps your tradition follows.
- Get the exact materials list and total fee in writing.
- Keep lamps, fire and food safe for children and elders.
Practices vary by region, sampradaya, community and family. General information only. Last reviewed October 2026.