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Engagement — Sagai / Roka / Nishchitartham
Families formally agree to the marriage.
Engagement & marriage
Meaning
The engagement announces the intended marriage and brings both families together.
How it is usually done
- The couple agrees to the engagement and marriage plans.
- Families discuss date, venue, budget and customs.
- Consult a priest about the date or compatibility, if desired.
- Arrange rings, clothing, gifts and ceremonial items.
- Welcome both families and begin with a prayer if customary.
- The couple exchanges rings or engagement symbols.
- Families exchange gifts, sweets and blessings.
- Announce the marriage and conclude with a meal.
Planning this ceremony?
- Ask your family priest which steps your tradition follows.
- Get the exact materials list and total fee in writing.
- Keep lamps, fire and food safe for children and elders.
Practices vary by region, sampradaya, community and family. General information only. Last reviewed October 2026.